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We had to renew our tourist visas, so had no choice but to go to Buenos Aires for a week. Our hostel was next door to the Confiteria Ideal, a historic cafe and dance hall, so we really had no choice but to get some tango shoes and hit the dance floor. On any other trip to Buenos Aires, I might have simply taken some tango lessons. On this trip, because it was the first break I took from studying Spanish in Chile in a few months, the tango lessons and dances were metaphors.
Tango is like Spanish
The first steps are easy, and you have to enjoy them in order to want move on. It is easy to learn the first eight steps they teach in tango just as it is easy to learn some beginner phrases in Spanish. For me, it was really fun to dance the basic eight steps and then the next few turns (ocho adelante) just as it was really fun to have basic conversations in Spanish with patrons at the library or with other travelers when we first arrived in Chile a few months ago. Enjoyable experiences are necessary, because when it gets difficult it helps to have something to remind you why you are even bothering to learn or to practice.
The first steps are easy, but it takes time and practice to internalize. Although it is easy to learn where to put your feet within a short amount of time, it takes longer to learn how and when to shift your weight and how to take cues from your dance partner. (After our third lesson we went to a dance hall and each "tangoed" with a few people. I put "tango" in quotes for my part, because at that point I really had not internalized my center of gravity or ability to interpret what he was telling me to do). Although it is easy to learn the basic phrases in Spanish, it takes a lot of practice to know when something sounds wrong to a Spanish-speaking ear.
There is a structure, but no one way to do it correctly. There are steps and moves in tango, but it is largely based on improvisation. For example, although the man makes the decisions of where to turn and how quickly to move, the woman can take her time with a turn, and each partner has to know how to listen to the other's body and know how to respond to the cues. Likewise, conversations in Spanish do not follow a script. You have to know the structure, the vocabulary, etc., in order to have a genuine conversation.
Remember to practice with a variety of people as a way to improve. At the milonga, we were seated next to a woman whose husband was sitting across the hall. They intentionally sat separately so that they could dance with other people as a way to improve their dancing. It seems obvious, but it can be very easy for me to forget to go out of my way to talk with a variety to people as a way to learn Spanish accents, words, etc.
I could go on, but it would start to feel a bit too Doogie Howser's Journal.
One of the main differences is that I had to slow waaaayyyyyyyy down in tango, and I have to speed waaayyyyyyy up in Spanish.





































